4/1/13

Hoppy Easter

We aren't a religious family but Easter is still a fun holiday to celebrate. New life blooming all around, candy, bunnies, candy, etc. After the Easter Bunny delivered his basket of goodies, we went outside for a little easter egg hunt with my son. He enjoyed it thoroughly. After the hunt, we went to my grandmother's for a delicious (and large) Easter lunch. I am still dreaming about that ham. Anywho, here are a few shots from our Easter this year.

Hispter bunny.

3/30/13

Commentary - My Greatest Accomplishment So Far

My greatest accomplishment in life thus far isn’t something I finished or created, its something I found.

Growing up, I never had a lot of confidence. I never thought I was pretty, never really finished anything, never gave myself any credit. For years I didn’t have the guts to do what I really wanted to do, be the person I wanted to be.

High school was a struggle; physical changes, boys and backstabbing aren’t the best breeding ground for confidence. But I finally started to love myself for the first time when I entered college. I was on my own and finding myself and it was wonderful. But that happiness was short lived. After a devastating break up and the development of a skin condition that scarred my face, I developed a condition called body dysmorphia. BDD is a psychological disorder where the affected person is obsessively concerned about and preoccupied with a perceived defect in their physical features or appearance. For me, that feature was my skin. Most days I was so uncomfortable with the way I looked, I didn’t want to get out of bed. Some days I wouldn’t because I felt I looked like a monster. It was a struggle to function, to say the least. However, I pushed through the pain and managed to get my degree and find the love of my life.

As the years passed, my dysmorphia continued to haunt me and my confidence continued to be none excitant. My husband tried to build me up but it never stuck. I would have a bad breakout, or think I did, and every bit of self worth I had would disappear. Then something happened. During my pregnancy with my son I was unable to use a cream for the skin condition due to possible birth defects. At first I freaked out a little. I was worried it would get worse if left untreated and hormones abound, I was not in the right mind set to deal with the repercussions. But as the months went on, I cared a little less about how I looked. By the time my son enter the world, my body dysmorphia had vanished from my psyche. I don’t know if it was because I now had something more important in my life to worry about or if it was flush of hormones leaving my body, but I didn’t care about my scar or how I looked any more. I was who I was and that was ok.

Free from my psychological shackles, I found my confidence. It wasn’t over night, it took time and love, but I realized I was smart, funny and capable of anything I put my mind to. My greatest accomplishment isn’t writing a book or finishing a marathon. It isn’t getting to a goal weight or finding my dream job. It’s loving myself, scars and all.
Note: This article was first published on another blog of mine for a writing contest. I did not win, nor was I even considered. I found this... frustrating. Coming to terms with ones self and loving your self and realizing that you are an extraordinary person is far more important an accomplishment in life then getting that raise or winning that game, in my opinion. Even being a mother, while one of the greatest things I have ever done in my life and something I am very proud of, isn't as great an accomplishment as loving me for me. Because of my found confidence and acceptance of who I am, my sons will grow up with a better mom, and that's amazing.

3/28/13

L'Oreal Colour Riche Balm in Laze in the Maze and Come By My Window - Swatches & Thoughts


If you've been 'round your local drugstores, you may have noticed L'Oreal's new pastel inspired Versailles Romance spring collection. They have six new Colour Riche Balms, six nail lacquers and some 'nail lingerie' (aka nail art appliqués). I decided to pick up two balms at my local Fred Meyer: Laze in the Maze and Come By My Windows. I was super tempted to get Sundays By The Seine, the blue one, but decided against it; I'd get more use out of the two I bought.

Voulez-vous pastels?

3/25/13

It's Springtime... Or So They Tell Me

Spring isn't just about the arrival of nicer weather and flowers. I've been counting down the days til my second son arrives. I am 37 weeks now and I am done. Sleeping is no fun, sitting is no fun, moving is no fun. I've got fingers poking my bladder and little feet kicking my ribs. This boy wants out! However, I have been enjoying time with my oldest son and our last days as a one kid family. Though the weather here in the Pacific Northwest has been a bit... bipolar. One day, rainstorm. Next day, sun. Next day, snow.

Early morning walk in the March snow.

3/24/13

Spring Color Palettes for Your Wardrobe

Spring is here! Kinda. It snowed a couple days ago hear in the Pacific Northwest, so its debatable. Regardless, I am in the mood for COLOR! so I decided to create some palettes and outfits for to freshen up my style this spring.

PALETTE #1
SKY BLUE, NEON PINK and STONE BROWN
Spring Palettes: Sky Blue, Neon Pink, Stone Brown

I actually just bought an outfit similar to this (tie-dye maxi skirt with a neon pink top) and I can't wait to wear it. Keep your eye makeup simple and add a shocking pink lipstick for a bold makeup look.


Tips, Tricks & Products for Covering Skin Problems

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Most people don’t have perfect skin. Genetics are tricky like that. Not even amazonian supermodels can avoid those annoying red bumps called pimples. Luckily for them, before photo shoots, they have a team of make-up artists there to make their skin look like perfection. Unfortunately, we mere mortals don’t have that privilege. Who has the time or the money to sit in a chair for two hours just for make-up? But fear not, thanks to today’s cosmetics brands, there are new and inventive concealing products and helpful tricks out there that will make you look flawless!

Concealers

From red blotches to under eye circles, there are a lot of places on you face that can always use concealing. However, there are so many brands out there, that its hard to find the perfect product for your problem places. Here are a few of my favorite concealing products for a variety of common face complaints...

Under-Eye Circles

Under-Eye Circles can make you look tired or worse, like you got in a fight last night and came back with a shiner. So when attempting to conceal that puffy, purple stained skin, it can be hard to achieve a total coverage. Some under-eye circle concealers can leave creases after you smile or fade through out the day. One concealer that I love is Maybelline Cosmetics' Dream Lumi Touch Highlighting Concealer (+/- $7.99 for 0.5 fl oz) for this particular problem. The cream is light reflecting, so it brightens your under eye area while covering discoloration, and it is fine enough that it blends into your skin perfectly. I use this in 'Radiant.' At first, it seemed like it was a shade too dark for my skin tone but in turns out that the deeper peach color helped diffuse under eye darkness even more.

Another great much raved about product is the Yves Saint Laurent Touch Éclat Radiant Touch Concealer ($45 for 0.1 fl oz). Either you love this stuff or you hate it. Personally, I love it but it is extermely pricey considering the dupes available (see above). However, if you want the original, it's the best. It comes in 12 shades; I use 'Luminous Ivory.'

Blemishes/Red Spots

Pimples are one of the most difficult things to conceal on your face. Not only are they raised out from you skin but they are usually a very different color from the rest of your face: bright red. One concealer that both camouflages problems and lasts is Keromask Camouflage Cream ($23.97 for 0.5 fl oz). This creamy concealer is super pigmented and will cover just about anything. It blends wonderfully into your skin and is a must have product for most makeup artists. I use it to conceal some hyper pigmentation around my facial scar and it is fabulous for covering blemishes as you only need a little bit to get full coverage. I do find it quite creamy, however, so if you have oily skin, I recommend mixing it with a more matte concealer. My favorite is the long wearing MAC Cosmetics Select Cover-Up concealer ($18 for 0.3 fl oz).

Wanna cover those blemishes without breaking the bank? Well, for well under $3, you can head to your closest drug store and pick up Wet n Wild’s CoverAll Stick (0.8 oz). Though this brand is on the cheaper side, this concealer stick is one of the better products out their when in comes to covering annoying blemishes and pimples. The lightweight formula blends into skin in a creamy matte that provides medium to full coverage. Its definitely the best bang for your buck.

Helpful Tricks and Tips

When covering a blemish or a pimple, try applying the concealer with a small brush rather than your finger. Oils from your hands can make the concealer more greasy and your skin too.

After applying your concealer, use another small brush and dip it into a loose powder (or regular compact) foundation. Apply a small amount over the concealed blemish. This will help the concealer last longer throughout the day.

Have a stubborn blemish that just won't accept being covered? Don't pack on the concealer all at once! This can look heavy and make the skin look uneven. Instead, layer your concealer in thin light-handed layers until it's covered. The result blends better into your skin and doesn't look cakey.

In the winter, try and avoid only powder concealers and foundations. The cold weather tends to dry out your skin and the powder will negatively enhance the dryness of your skin. Vise versa for the summer; try and avoid thick, oily liquid foundations as the heat will cause you to sweat most of it off during the day.

You don’t need to always use foundation. Try just a tinted moisturizer and concealers for a fresher, cleaner look.

Avoid applying foundation powder underneath your eyes and go lightly with the powder near the edges of your mouth. When you smile, squint or perform any other face expression, powder tends to crease into fine lines.

Try out a concealer on your hand, not for skin color matching, but to see how the concealer will blend into your skin.

For extremely oily skin, use blotting papers and a matte-ifying primer to help keep shine at bay. Blotting papers won’t take off as much make-up as tissue paper, so pat them on the problem parts of your skin to absorb any excess oil and keep it looking flawless. As for primers, matte-ifying types help smooth skin and keep oil from showing up as fast, thus prolonging the wear of your makeup. Personally, I haven't found one I like at all (though please let me know your favorites in the comments) but I have tried Milk of Magnesia. While the use of the liquid laxative as a primer is debatable, as it can mess with the pH balance of your skin and cause more problems than it solves, I haven't had any issues. However, my oily spots are just around my nose and I do not use MoM every day. So please, use at your own risk and do your own research before you try it. If a reaction occurs, please seek medical help and discontinue use.

Any tips, tricks or concealer products you love? Let me know about them in the comments! I am always on the search for great, long wearing concealer!
DISCLOSURE: Some of the products mentioned here were purchased by me, others were samples sent. All opinions are my own and were not paid for. Click here to see my disclosure policy.

3/14/13

Game of Thrones Inspired Outfits

These 'inspired by' outfits aren't new (see my fashion tumblr Modish Ophelia for more style musings) but since Game of Thrones SEASON 3 (!!!) is premiering at the end of the month, I thought I'd share them with you here. I should do more characters but I'm pretty proud of the way these turned out so I stopped. However, if there is a character from the show that you'd like to see an outfit inspired by, post it in the comments below! (I know, I know, I should read the books but I like to show too much and I don't want to spoil it for myself so HUSH!)

Arya

Game of Thrones - Arya Inspired

For Arya I wanted to keep it simple. She isn’t a girly girl like Sansa so I didn’t dare put her in a dress. Everything is pretty practical, even the locket (as, if she could, it would hold a picture of her family). Ok… maybe not the braclet, but Arya is a girl and quite honestly, I think she’s proud of that. Last but not least, Needle and a signature Stark wolf.

Sansa

Game of Thrones - Sansa Inspired

Poor Sansa. The little bird. I wanted to keep it light and airy (as is the fashion in the south) but make sure elements of being bound, kept in a cage, are prevalent. She, like Arya, would have a locket if she could, with a picture of her family. A large lion bracelet and a few red accessories represent Lannister, while a small wolf ring lets her know she’s still a Stark.

Jon Snow

Game of Thrones - Jon Snow Inspired

Oh Jon Snow, you steal my heart every episode with your charm, stead fast character, loyalty… who am I kidding, and your dashing good looks! The Brotherhood of Crows is all about the black but I wanted to make the look a little rebellious as well. Even though he’s ‘the bastard’ of Lord Eddard Stark, he is still a Stark at heart; thus the combination of wolf and crow. Couldn’t forget about Ghost, so I added a white wolf ring as well.

Cersei

Game of Thrones - Cersei Inspired

Cersei really is the queen bitch, so rather than put her in something simliar to the gowns in the show/books, I took a more modern approach; as she might be in our world. The red gown says ‘All your attention MUST be on me!’ … which is she would expect of you anyway even if she was in a sack. Sharp red pump and a giant ruby ring balance out the gold lion cuff and ring. I couldn’t forget diamonds and these lion knocker spike earrings fit perfectly with this harsh meets sexy but still regal look. I especially love the purse. There is a snake eating a skull. SO perfect as that is what Cersei is to me; not a lion, but a snake. At least in my mind. ;)

Jaime

Game of Thrones - Jaime Inspired

Jaime is a really interesting character. Even if he is a psycho, there is something in his self torture that makes me pity and hate him at the same time. Plus he’s not bad to look at. … Then again, he did push Bran out a window. … Anyway, I kept the palette neutral and modest with hints to order and stateliness. I had to add some leather but I wanted to keep the lions simple, as Jaime is simple in his complexity. A little Lannister red and practical boots round out the look. I couldn’t forget a blade but seeing as Jaime does not like his nickname, Kingslayer, I kept it small but noticeable.

Tyrion

Game of Thrones - Tyrion Inspired

Tyrion is by far one of my favorite characters (as I suspect he is for many readers and viewers). But I’ll be damned if this look wasn’t hard. I knew I wanted chunky boots, leather and signature Lannister red, gold and lions, but the rest was hard. A crop maroon shirt is a nod to his physical stature while the platform boots are more symbolic of his large personality. I had to put some humor into it as is Tyrion, so to represent him being the Hand of the King to Joffery I added a rock, paper, scissors hand necklace. Also a wine glass. I may do another Tyrion look as I was a bit stumped but I am happy with what I came up with… for now. :)

Daenerys

Game of Thrones - Daenerys Inspired

Daenerys has an earthy style about her. Part of that comes from walking around in a wasteland forever. The other part is her loyalty and dedication to the Dothraki. Snake skin print pants, gladiator sandals, warm colors. There are dragons, three of them, of course; necklace, bracelet and ring. I also love the collars the show has her in so the jacket is a nod to that. I added a pop of color with a beautiful turquoise head chain.


DIY Pinup Headband

Growing hair out can be painfully unattractive; hello mullet! So in an attempt to camouflage my slowly extending tendrils, I decided to make a few headbands. Turns out, they looked really good! I just had to share how I constructed these super cute pinup inspired headbands that are easy to make. (And I suck at sewing, as you shall see in this tutorial.)

  

3/12/13

NOTD - Don't Burst My Bubble + Lights of Emerald City

I've been on a super feminine kick this spring in terms of style. Seeing as leather and black are my choice du jour during the winter season, it's a nice light & frothy departure. So when I saw this gorgeously girly nail combo by Jessika from Polish Insomniac using Don't Burst My Bubble and Lights of Emerald City from OPI's Oz: The Great and Powerful inspired collection, I knew HAD to buy both bottles and achieve this look!


3/8/13

Boy Meets Dog

I've been busy with the close out sale for my shop, Dorian + Dahl Apothecary, but I managed to get a little bit of life on film... or phone rather. Lots of walks in the woods now that the weather is finally getting nicer, my son torturing playing with Juno, our Australian Shepard mix, and some other random moments I found particularly fun.
My son's self portrait with a balloon. Medium: WikiStix and marker on paper.

Drawing and relaxing on J-Bird.

I took at least five different photos and she didn't move a muscle; she would have been a great mommy.

My father found a bird's nest whilst trimming trees; my son decided to make a nest of his own... with Juno's dish.

Sunny day in the woods.

I think he saw a bird...
Pretty girl, lazy girl.

Bubble bath! Making crazy bubble hats is fun.